Can't help with the washer, but get your stator rewound here: http://www.tpe-usa.com/
When he's done with it, it is beter than OEM, only costs around $65 plus shipping, and isn't a cheap Chinese stator like most everyone sells!
I'm keepin' all the left over parts. I'm gonna use 'em to build another bike!
1989 VN750 acquired December, 2008, 6,711 miles
Currently 23,298 miles
2001 Honda CMX250 Rebel acquired July, 2008
1987 VN750 project bike, acquired August, 2009, 33,000 miles and balancer sticking out of the case, currently awaiting attention and parts