I'm sorry to hear this Peace Pipe.
I'm sorry to hear this Peace Pipe. Was she the girl you were really happy about?
I don't understand the move either... I mean, I have backtracked before on sleeping with a guy too soon and then feeling like it was a mistake, but not just making out... Unless, how heavy was the making out? Was it an 'everything but penetration' session?
And even the times that I had backtracked, it definitely wasn't because the guy had pressured me, but because, the day after, I felt like there was a lag between my actions and the level of intimacy with the guy. Like I had gotten ahead of myself - like I had failed to protect my vulnerabilities.
So I don't think she meant she 'made a mistake' as a way to make you feel responsible in any way.
On a side note... You offered her the couch? Hmmm.... Gentlemen offer the lady the bed, in their company, or a cab fare home. Couch surfing is detrimental to romance. My new guy walked me home at midnight after I acted all wishy-washy. I know, once again, a system that works to the advantage of women. Just saying though, we do appreciate these kinds of gestures.